Lazy sex syndrome is definitely a real thing—and for good reason. In other words: Why reinvent the so-called wheel when you can settle into the oh-so-comfortable spoon position, or revert to the position that always, unfailingly gets you off? First of all, you never know where a different-than-normal sex position might lead—and while an orgasm might be one of the lucky results of trying something new, it could also simply be a tantalizing way to build things up; a strategy to keep things fresh with your partner; or an excuse to appreciate all the awesome things our bodies can do. And some are minor twists on classics that are just a good reminder to try every so often. This one is like vagina-owner-on-top, in heterosexual, cis-gendered couples, except with the genders reversed. Great for partners of all genders and orientations , the absolute 69 is a slight variation on the regular 69 in that one partner is directly on top of the other, facedown. Some sources suggest adding digital penetration to the mix to really take things over the top—assuming your partner is down. Lie down on your back and have your partner grab your legs, holding them out in a V-shaped position while kneeling and thrusting. Feeling tired or lazy?
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Most couples aren't very adventurous in the bedroom. When it comes time to get down in between the sheets, few are bold enough to venture away from traditional standbys like missionary , cowgirl , spooning , doggy style. It doesn't have to be this way. There are plenty of inventive sex positions that can result in better orgasms for you and your partner, and they don't all involve contorting your body into a pretzel. We have a few suggestions—50 of them, to be exact. We know 50 is a lot, but don't be intimidated. Treat this list like a menu.
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When it comes to getting ready for bed, chances are you and your partner have a little routine down. And it's not one that you should neglect, because bonding right before sleep is important. They say never go to bed angry, and there is scientific proof that supports that. Putting that last happy, good-feeling memory into your mind will strengthen your bond more than you know. And another great way to do it is with a pre-bedtime sex session. If you've got the energy, you'll be setting yourself up for some lovely, intimate time before you drift off to sleep. I get that you might be feeling tired before bed, so you might not be swinging from the chandeliers.
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